Whether it's cancer, Covid, chronic back-pain or COPD, the inception of a new, major disease in one's life initiates a significant change that can last for a few months, a few years or for a lifetime. Although many of these maladies are associated with aging or long-term exposure to negative external factors, pathological pitfalls are not limited to the chronologically advantaged. When we first encounter this new aspect of our health history, a number of familiar and new dimensions become amplified in our life.
- We are suddenly going to the doctor (or more likely doctors) waaaay more than before. It used to be a regular/periodic check in or check up, but now that increases - more visits and more specialists
- Similarly, the need for tests becomes a factor which may not have even been present at all before - and now is almost overwhelming
- All of the above exacerbates the already well-known frustration of scheduling appointments. Unless you are retired, who even has the time for all of the bureaucracy; let alone the sessions themselves (and the follow ups!)
- Not forgetting the incalculable turnaround time between each step along the diagnostic progression; one which can be mercifully straight (rarely) or mercilessly circuitous (more likely)
- Though I am not here to raise a general indictment of the medical system, it is a quagmire-type universe that moves at its own unique pace
- It's almost impossible to avoid the topic of the associated costs - even with good insurance. On top of contending with this new malady, the concerns about duration and bills are inescapable
- And if all of that weren't enough, the splash of cold water from certain altered capabilities (mobility, appetite or sleep - to name a few) are a collection of QOL annoyances/burdens. Is this temporary? Is this permanent?!?
So my dear friends, when this new health challenge comes barging into your life, I can offer you little solace or succor other than my heartfelt sympathies and support. There is no quick answer or easy way out - but sometimes something as simple as an occasional 'hot dish' dinner from a friend can feel like a tremendous relief. Skol, 2E.
